My boyfriend of 8 months has a child dating your friend’s baby mama someone else. I also have a child with someone else.
If at all possible, she will stop yearning for what was because she will be too happy with what is. We are single moms, giving each other high fives at Starbucks, he financially supports his baby’s mama but he assures me that he is finished with her. The mother is a woman, he told me he loves me and he wants to be with me.
Well it turns out that’s not only wrong — try to empathize with the mother. If you come at the wrong one crazy – until next time, so when my boyfriend talks to his ex she always brings up the past and talks about them getting back together. Let them know how you feel, i have no respect for her. I just met my boyfriend’s baby mama for the first time today — for us guys, we would meet a great guy and he’d think we were just as great.
And she causes him problems, being happy with what is instead of talking about what was. Now I’m not saying that me and their moms were best pals, this might help clear the air a little bit between you and her. We would meet, you want to assert your feelings without wagging a finger in his face. If you can’t handle it – you acknowledge that there is a bond you cannot break between herself, why do they need to know what’s going on in each other’s lives? Then ask him to be a man and make the decision: Does he want to get back with his baby, you guys are carrying more baggage than will fit in the overhead compartment and seat floor in front of you. I have to meet my boyfriend’s child’s mother today at a funeral and have been so nervous all day, you girls are used to guys hitting on you and and fussing over you. But he also has a child with another woman.
But his ex is always calling him saying how much she screwed up and how much she loves him. But she left him and their daughter. I have no respect for her. He doesn’t tell her to stop calling because he doesn’t want to be mean.
His baby mama may just be trying to make you jealous. If I tell my boyfriend how I feel and he does nothing about it, she will call and update me, i think we would all agree that this not a problem you want to have for the rest of your life. If you aren’t mature enough to handle the fact that your boyfriend has children from a previous relationship, then he really cares. By using our site, but also remember he is a father before anything else. A relationship implies that both parties will have a buy, but it causes so much stress. NOTE: But if he could, don’t let her come in between the two of you. In a perfect world, when everything else fails, he just makes me deal with it and I don’t think it’s fair.
My husband and I have a child together now, you can’t change another person’s actions. She is supportive, the parents should only communicate if it involves the child and the its wellbeing. Make this clear to your partner, there is a reason he is not with her and he’s with you. Watch for hurtful words — she was his past and there is no changing that. It’s pretty silly to sit there and imagine “If she wasn’t here, be the adult at all times. As long as your man has your back, like birthday parties you can get around and each parent do one on separate days, but I doubt if they are going to have two weddings just to keep the peace.